Well, all those things you describe to dislike about anarchism have never been a problem for my involvement. I reject utopianism and I support organization to the extreme, but all the things you cite seem to describe flag blackened which is one reason I never go there anymore. Most the labor oriented Anarchism is actually quite good in my opinion. Has flag blackened actually started moderating their site or is it still a mess?
It's been going good. Just been hanging out with people and doing activist stuff. Funny to see you changed perspectives. Anarchist and ML are a bit far off.